Today it is exactly three years since I moved here to Washington DC. The day after I arrived at Dulles International Airport, I was settled in my new office and saw Obama win the historic 2008 election. A day or so later I was introduced to Mr. M, and a week and a half after that, I got the keys to my apartment. And after that, things have just kept moving. I sometimes think that my life is a little slow here, but when I think about all the things I have done since I moved here, how much I have learned, all the places I have seen, all the people I have gotten to know, and everyone that has come to visit me here, I realize that I have kept quite busy. (I am not going to do a recap because everything, or almost everything anyway, is in the blog archive.) I seriously considered leaving at one point, but in the end I decided to stay, and now the U.S. is by far the country where I have lived the longest. So for how long do I think I will stay here? Well, I have no plans at this point, at least not in this regard. Right now it feels best to just take things as they come!
Category Archives: My life
Can Life Be An Adventure Even in DC?
I’m not sure… After a really intensive week with activities or late-night work every evening, I now have a highly uneventful weekend in front of me. The few people that I normally spend time with outside of work here in Washington are busy this weekend, and since I have a lot of studies to catch up on (and am frankly quite tired after this week), I haven’t made an effort to contact anyone else either. Definitely a change from last weekend in New York! I am also wondering if this is really the adventure that life could be? Probably not. Or maybe it just depends on how present we are in the moment and how much of the small and big things around us in our every-day life that we really see? Perhaps I should explore DC a little more at some point this weekend!? Or just enjoy my weekend brunch at Trio, a meal and a place that would be difficult to find in Sweden. Or maybe the closest I will get to an adventure is through reading the Sisi biography that I bought in Vienna a few weeks ago…. Regardless, I am glad the weekend is here!
 At the steps of the U.S. Supreme Court here in Washington DC a sunny September day a couple of years ago (photographer: Carro)
At the steps of the U.S. Supreme Court here in Washington DC a sunny September day a couple of years ago (photographer: Carro)
Some Anti-stress Juice Would Be Great Right Now!
I am in the middle of an overwhelmingly intensive period right now with work and school. I really thought one of my work assignments would be done by now, but it’s like a boomerang that just keeps coming back and back and back… So I have broken my rule number one of always getting about eight hours of sleep per night, and instead been up working past midnight certain nights. Hopefully it will all be worth it for someone…. When I was in Montenegro a few weeks ago, I was served this juice in a meeting with the Extension Services. Anti-stress juice! I think I could use some right now!
Protests, Pastis, and Much More During a Wonderful Weekend in NY
I am back in DC after a wonderful, wonderful weekend in New York. The best part was of course to spend time with Jenny and Mia-Lotta. I really miss my old friends here! But just being in New York filled me with energy (with the exception of half a shopping day in a crowded Soho, during which I of course didn’t find anything). Again, I wish my work was located there. But since it isn’t and I only had a weekend there this time, I tried to make the most of it. Thus, I had brunches at Pates Et Traditions in Williamsburg and at Pastis in the Meatpacking District, dinners at Highlands in West Village and at the Jane Hotel in the Meatpacking District, and after dinner drinks at the Jane Hotel ballroom and at Hotel Delmano and Pinkerton in Williamsburg. And of course numerous coffees at various coffee shops around the city. I also managed to drop by the Occupy Wall Street demonstrations in the Zuccotti Park. To be honest, I had kind of expected a larger crowd there, given what they are protesting against. But I guess demonstrations against inequalities and greed just works better in Europe and other parts of the world than here in the U.S… Regardless, it was a great weekend and I hope to go back soon!
The Occupy Wall Street protesters in Zuccotti Park
The “Double-Check” / “Survivor” turned into a protester
Brunch with Mia-Lotta and Karin at Pastis
With Mia-Lotta on the High Lane – one of my favorite spots in New York.
My Favorite City
So I am in New York since yesterday evening. Again. Though I was more overwhelmed than in love the first time I set my foot here more than seven years ago, New York has come to be one of my favorite cities. At least as a guest. Some of my friends who have lived here for a longer period are somewhat more ambiguous in their relationship to this city. The day starts with a couple of hours of work but hopefully the rest of the weekend will be work free. Went out and picked up breakfast to get some energy for the work session and my name was apparently really tricky to get for the cafe staff! Also, here is the view from Jenny’s window this morning.
More Travels
I am taking off again but not that far this time, only to New York. Mia-Lotta and her friend Karin are coming over for an extended weekend and I will take the bus up to see them and to hang out with Jenny for a few days. I have to say that though Washington is nice, one of the best thing with this city is probably its proximity to New York. Don’t really look forward to the 4-hour bus ride though, but at least I will have plenty of time to study the Food Policy reading material I received yesterday.
On Brooklyn Bridge this summer
10 Montenegrin Commandments
It is almost 10 pm and I am still working. Seems like too many things need to get done at the same time this week, though I am afraid that this is just a prediction of what the next couple of months will look like. Fortunately, as I wrote yesterday, everything I work with right now is really interesting and in periods when I do a lot of writing, it almost doesn’t feel like work. However, working more than ten hours per day is never good in the long run, even though it seems to be life for many here in the US. When I was in Kotor, Montenegro, a few weeks ago, I found a postcard titled 10 Montenegrin Commandments, with the following text:
- Man was born tired and he lives to rest.
- Love your bed as you love yourself.
- Rest during the day, so that during the night you can sleep.
- Do not work, work kills!
- If you see someone resting, help him!
- Work less than you can, and what you can, give away to others
- In shade is salvation, nobody has died of rest.
- Work brings illness – don’t die young!
- If by chance you wish to work, sit still, wait, you see, it will pass.
- When you others eating and drinking, move closer. If you see them working, move away, don’t disturb them!
The text on the card was probably translated by google but you still get the idea. I have to say though that the Montenegrins that I work with don’t seem to live according to this as they are extremely hard working. But perhaps it is a good philosophy to take after, at least now and then?
Lots and Lots of Things to Look Forward to This Fall!
Coming back to Washington a week ago meant getting started with all my personal and professional projects. At work, I have several interesting and exciting tasks to look forward over the next months. And outside of work – well let’s just say that after a bit of a dormant period, I am back in my normal pace! This means continuing the part-time MSc program in Food Policy that I am doing (my second MSc since I already have one in Economics), continuing with my Romanian studies at Lund University (though I think this will be the last semester of Romanian studies for me), and getting started again with dance classes and the Swedish Choir that I sing in. (We already have five or six performances booked before Christmas.) My calendar for the fall is already full and admittedly, I am a little stressed, but I also like having things to look forward to!
Generosity
During my week in (F.Y.R) Macedonia, the most interesting event was probably a meeting with a group of farmers, which we arranged to get a better understanding of the main obstacles for small scale commercial farmers in one of the regions. These farmers were very small in terms of the size of their farms. This means that they cultivated less than one to a few hectares of land, even for cereal production, and that they most of them owned no more than 10 cattle or 20 pigs. A few of them even rented their land. The majority of the farmers that attended the meeting were older men but there were a couple of women and a few younger farmers there. As for most small-scale farmers that I have worked with, what it all boiled down to was the difficulty in accessing higher-value markets and getting paid enough for their produce to have an incentive to invest more and to move out of poverty. When discussing the problems with markets and prices, one farmer suggested that the international organizations could buy food products from them for humanitarian aid for people in need around the world. A chorus of voices agreed with him and told us that if it was for aid for places like Africa (i.e. the Horn of Africa), they would give the aid organizations a good price. What really moved me though was one farmer who said that that if it was for Africa, he would give his produce for free. I hope to always remember that farmer and that some people are generous regardless of how little they have.
Suff Expat Aid Workers Like
I am out of inspiration so I haven’t come up with anything to write about in a few days. However, I (or rather a colleague of mine) found a really funny blog that I wanted to share with you: Stuff Expat Aid Workers Like. It’s a blog about the preferences and ways of workers in the humanitarian aid industry. And yes, it contains some for me highly familiar situations/topics. For example, just the other day, I excused myself from a happy hour after having endured 45 minutes of airport anecdotes from non-tourist destinations around the world… (see post #95) Other funny posts are #89 on photo ops of traditionally dressed locals with new technology, or #88 on Foreign Language T-shirts (let’s not forget my I Love Moldova t-shirt!) The ToonsEAWL from September 9 is also well recognizable for anyone who has ever worked for in an international organization. Check it out! Even if you don’t work in the sector, you will probably find it quite funny. And to all my friends – despite the above, I hope you don’t recognize your truly too much in the posts…











