A great start of the end of the week! I decided to work from home today and started the day with a bagel, a coffee, and a book at Java House. The rest of the day was however dedicated to work. This period is really busy and so I just finished up one of the reports I’ve been working on for a while. This weekend is actually not going to be very interesting – I have a lot of things to fix in terms of school and work and other. But I guess we all have to take time to organize things from time to time so that we can spend the rest of the time focusing on living well.
Category Archives: My life
First Signs of Spring?
It is kind of cold here in Washington right now. Not cold compared to Europe perhaps, and not with the snow that we had two years ago, but colder than we’ve had for the past weeks. Yet, this morning when I woke up, something was different. Not only did dawn seem to break already before 6:30, but the sun also seemed to be higher and the sunlight warmer. Almost like spring was on its way…
In little less than a month, I am going to Macedonia for a few weeks and I had hoped to meet spring there. I have only been to Skopje once in the winter, so somehow I think of it as eternally warm. But given that many of my colleagues in the Western Balkan were working from home last week due to the cold, and that several places had declared emergency situation due to harsh weather conditions, I probably have to pack my boots instead. It seems more likely that spring will get here first. And I hope it comes soon because spring and summer is so much more fun than winter!
In Skopje, late September, 2011
Going Back to Sweden for a Few Hours: Another Evening with the Swedish Song Group
One evening per month, it is like I go back to Sweden. It is when the Swedish Song Group of Washington meets and practice. The group gathers in the house of the choir’s musical leader, little outside DC, and when I enter her house, it is like I walk into a Swedish home. The furniture, wallpapers, fabrics, and decorations all remind me of Sweden. I think we are around 20 Swedes and Swedish-Americans that meet to sing and socialize. I and a few others are the “newcomers”, whereas most have been here long enough to have adult American children or even grandchildren. We sing at Swedish events a few times per year and it is always fun. What I like the most about singing with this group though is that I learn Swedish songs that I didn’t know before, from traditional folk music to modern compositions. I guess keeping a bit of where we come from becomes more important the longer we stay abroad, and since singing is such an important part of my life, I am very happy that I found this group and get to know all this music. This evening we have this month’s practice and I can’t wait for the workday to be over so that I get to go to Sweden again for a few hours!
From a couple of our performances around Washington DC:
All the Interesting People Out There
This is a lazy, lazy weekend again. Mainly because Mr. M is not around and that kind of limits my social life here in Washington. It does, however, give me more time for other things, such as writing. Today, I spent the afternoon at Le Pain Quotidien and made great progress on my book. I really like the main character so it is so much fun to write down her adventure! On the opposite side of the table sat a man who was also tapping away on his MacBook Pro (Le Pain Quotidien has a large communal table in the middle of their cafes, which I sat at today) and before he left, we talked a little. He asked it I was a student (as he said I looked young enough to be one – I took that as a complement!) and it turned out that he was an English professor who was in DC to give guest lectures. He gave me his personal card, which I thought was nice and I felt a little bad that I didn’t talk more to him, but my mind was a bit absent as I was so caught up in my writing. Anyway, I couldn’t resist googling his name when I got back home, and it turned out that he is a Harvard professor who published a couple of books. It’s pity that I didn’t take the chance to talk more to him – my loss! I rarely initiate conversations with strangers so I find it quite amazing how many nice and interesting people that so often start talking to me. I am really grateful that others are so much more outgoing than I am so that I still get to meet them!
Lovely Chisinau
I am just home after ballet class and trying to organize some last things before this day is over. This week has passed too quickly – I can’t believe it is already Thursday tomorrow! I am in a hectic period right now in terms of work, but I am doing interesting things, so I really enjoy it. (One of the report that I have been working on now for a while will be published shortly, and hopefully it might get some attention in the medial so that I can show a little of what I am doing here.) In the meantime, you might find it interesting to learn a little more about Chisinau, my hometown for two years (see my blog archive from 2007 and 2008). A Moldovan friend of mine had posted this video on Facebook. It is produced by the Moldovan NGO IDIS “Viitorul” and gives a somewhat more positive picture of Chisinau than is normally presented in Western media. Chisinau is still small in terms of size and economy, but it is a very pleasant city and Moldovans are really great! So I recommend anyone to visit and if I was an entrepreneur, I would definitely look there for opportunities. So enjoy the video – it made me really nostalgic!
What Do You Do Without a Book?
After a long day at work, ballet class in the evening, and a quick dinner, it is now almost midnight and I am ready to go to sleep. I tried a new class tonight at Joy of Motion, and we were so focused on the exercises that we forgot the time. When I finally got to the metro, I saw a train leave the platform and since they are renovating the DC metro system, the trains run sporadically and the was a 20 minute wait for the next train. Normally, this is not a problem because I can always read while waiting, but today I had FORGOTTEN TO BRING A BOOK!! Those of you who know me, know how incredibly rare this is. My question is: what do people do in these situation without a book or something else to read?? I ended up studying every person on the platform, and then I almost fell asleep on the bench where I was sitting. Is that normal? Forgetting a book was especially stupid since I don’t exactly have a shortage of books to read. Below is what is waiting for me on my bedside table (I have started reading about half of them…)
Routines: How Much Is Too Much?
This weekend was too short. Or passed to quickly. Not sure how to describe it, but I kind of wish I had tomorrow off too. Or I am a little ambivalent, since I have some interesting work to look forward to tomorrow, and then a ballet class in the evening. But I also have more things that I would like to fix with at home, and there is never any time in the week. Anyway, it was fun to meet up with my friend from Moldova and we had a nice lunch at Cafe Leopold in Georgetown. Since his girlfriend is Moldovan, he promised to invite me to some Moldovan events, which I look forward too. I then ended up spending the rest of the day, strolling around in Georgetown before going over to Chinatown for the Swedish cupcake and wine gathering that I was invited too in the evening. It is always interesting to meet other Swedes and to hear why they decided to move to Washington.
Today was a typical Sunday in DC with brunch at Trio, grocery shopping at Whole Foods (missed the farmers’ market today), skyping with friends, a few hours of reading for work, some writing, and a bit of ballet. I realized that I have become a person of routines, and I can’t decide if it is a good thing since I kind of like the things I do, or if it is just dull and a little pathetic? Fortunately, there is a bit of traveling scheduled for me this spring, so at least I will not have turned into Jack Nicholson’s character in As Good as It Gets before this summer. (There are otherwise quite a few of those in my neighborhood!) Thought maybe by next…
Back on point again!! It’s interesting how quickly I got back into ballet despite the almost 15 year break. Guess muscle memory does exist!? (Forgot my camera in NY last weekend so I am stuck with my cell phone camera, hence the poor quality of the photo.)
Friday Night in Washington
Am watching Inside Washington on PBS and eating a burger from Five Guys. Can’t be more DC that this! I have more inspiring plans for the weekend though. Among other things I will meet up with an American friend that I know from Moldova and whom I haven’t seen since I moved here. So lunch in Georgetown tomorrow, and probably a bit of browsing in stores after, since Georgetown is the best shopping area in DC. In the evening, I am invited to some Swedish cupcake and wine gathering. (You’d might think cupcakes would be out of fashion by now, but not yet! And always delicious regardless!) And the rest of the weekend will be dedicated to writing and dance. Not too eventful but then again, DC is not NY. And I am glad to have some time to focus on my writing. The story, by the way, is not set in DC…
My sister Jessica in front of the Capitol Hill, from her visit in Nov 2011
Another Project
I am in New York again. I felt like hanging out with Jenny and other friends up here, so I took the bus up Friday morning and am staying until tomorrow afternoon. It’s been a very cozy weekend, though a bit cold since the temperature has been below freezing. I have only been hanging out in East Village, where Jenny lives, Soho, and Williamsburg this time. Lots of dinners, brunches, parties, and interesting people as always! I have also had the opportunity to do a little research for my next project, which is to write a teenage novel. Part of the story will be set in New York, so I am trying to find suitable locations for various events. A quite fun task actually! I have had the story in the back of my head for the past two years, so I hope that 2012 will finally be the year when I realize this project! In addition to screening the NY environment, I picked up a motivational book and some information on self publishing. So at least a small step forward. The next step is to find some time to write….
Another Change of Plans (Without Really Having a Plan B…)
In order to enjoy life, I think it is important to have interests that fills you with energy. And I don’t just mean in term of physical health, like exercise, but something that completely absorbs you in a good way. Whereas for many, that is actually exercising, for me it involves a broad range of activities from traveling, going to museums, or studying languages. Part of this is probably something that Gretchen Rubin argues in The Happiness Project and that is that an environment of growth is essential for human wellbeing. My real energy boosts however comes from singing or playing instruments, and from dancing. My other focus this semester (apart from work of course) was thus supposed to have been ballet. After a break for about 15 years, I have now been dancing for about a year, but not more than once or twice a week on average. So I thought I’d take classes more intensively to get back in shape (if that is even possible at my age of course). The studios where I currently take classes are a little far away, which involves quite a bit of logistics to every class. A few weeks before Christmas, I found however a studio at Dupont Circle, about three blocks from where I live, and I quickly planned for a 4 – 5 classes per week schedule, involving both traditional ballet classes as well as a barre class (the new trend here in the U.S.) and point class. And yesterday, I was about to go to my first class but when I went on-line to book it, there was a message on their website saying that due to financial difficulties, they had to close down their business! So no ballet intensive for me this spring. Guess it will leave me time to follow Justin Sanderloe’s guitar lessons on YouTube, which Dan recommended me and finally learning properly how to play.










